Thursday, February 6, 2020

February. The month that reminds me of snow, cold, dreary weather and, of course, romance. With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, it’s easy to remember all of the school parties at High Grove Elementary growing up. Well, at least it’s easy for most.

For me, my memories of Valentine’s Day when I was young include ear infections and lots of daytime television. I think, for a span of many years, I seemed to have some sort of winter illness at the time of our class party. Which meant, I missed out on the Valentine card exchange, the treats and the fun. I recall one year where I convinced myself I was well enough to go to school that day, only to be sent home just before the party started.

As a young mom, when my son was still in his early years of education, I took great pride in creating one-of-a-kind Valentine boxes each year. It’s possible I was living somewhat vicariously through my child, who wouldn’t have missed these class parties for anything (nor did he have any ear infections like I did, thank goodness).

I know it’s silly to make a big deal out of Valentine’s Day. I understand that it’s a profitable holiday, one where florists and greeting card companies flourish and bask in the glory of love. But, I still think it’s one of my favorite days of the year. There’s nothing better than celebrating the people you care about, and showering them with love and affection (and chocolate and flowers).


So, next week, I hope you feel loved. Whether that’s from your spouse, your friends, your family or even just the person taking your order at the diner, I hope that someone shows you a little bit of affection and admiration. Because, all we need is love, right? As for me, I’ll be celebrating with my fiance and likely downing the vitamins from now until then in order to keep the ear infections at bay.